Everyone hates being written about. Everyone discovers this anew each time it happens. No one ever learns! So you could basically auto-replace "African-Americans" or "gays" (definitely gays!) or even your own name in today's swath of complaints about the New York Times' coverage of the recent BlogHer conference for lady bloggers. So a bunch of women get together and talk about their feelings and reapply mascara at BlogHer and boy howdy are they pissed when a lady reporter notices.