How Jesse James Told Sandra Bullock About His Infidelity
Posted on May 04, 2011 @ 04:30AM

By Amber Goodhand
Radar Staff Reporter
No one was shocked by Jesse James' infidelities more than Sandra Bullock, and he details every painful moment of telling her about it in his new book, American Outlaw.
"I admitted the affair. I told her the hard details. I let her know that I had never loved this woman, that I had never cared for her at all," James wrote.
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"The feeling of shame and sadness that washed over me as Sandy began to cry was almost beyond measure...I didn't touch her. I sat frozen in my chair, watching, as Sandy's small body shook with sobs."
James, 42, says he got a call from Bullock's publicist warning him that a woman had come forward claiming an affair with him and that her story was going to be released in a tabloid magazine -- prompting the West Coast Choppers star to come clean with his then-wife, Bullock.
"Sandy rose to her feet. She unfolded her sunglasses and put them on her face," James said after he'd told her about his cheating while the two sat in his office.
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"She walked steadily and purposefully to the front of the shop, opened the heavy, metal door. For a moment, the sunlight enveloped her. The door closed behind her, and she was gone."
James says he also came clean to his two oldest children, Chandler and Jesse Jr., telling them he'd been unfaithful, but had a hard time when his youngest daughter, Sunny, asked where Bullock was.
"I chew my lip as I consider my answer. Well, sweetie, the truth is, I have no idea. Daddy f**ked up, real, real bad, so your stepmommy decided to disappear for a few weeks," James wrote.
Keep checking RadarOnline.com for more explosive details from James' new book.
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He is low class, I field sorry for Sunny, she is the real loser
Posted Wed, 05/04/2011 - 1:11pm
That's seriously the BEST thing that could have happened to her!
Posted Wed, 05/04/2011 - 11:20am
"I was willing to trash everything we have for someone who meant absolutely nothing to me. Now you know how much I value you." Class act all the way. Turd.
Posted Wed, 05/04/2011 - 9:09am
Agreed. A tool and a turd. WHY doesn't he go AWAY?? SHe tried to paint a burro gold..
He's still a jack-ass. That little girl lost the best thing (Bullock). I feel sorry for Sunny
Posted Wed, 05/04/2011 - 10:28am
some men just need their d*ck nailed to a dry tree that's set on fire and then handed a rusty butter knife to free themselves. he's one of them.
Posted Wed, 05/04/2011 - 8:56am
Lovely language to be using in front of your child, Jesse. She'll grow up speaking this way because that's what she's learned from you. How charming.
Posted Wed, 05/04/2011 - 8:37am
he didnt say that to her he considered saying that to her. but considering who her parents are ( real mom and dad ) im sure she has heard worse than the f word
Posted Wed, 05/04/2011 - 9:55am
Sandra is a class act. Jesse is disgusting. She's way better off without him. Just lay low, Sandra, he'll eventually go away.
Posted Wed, 05/04/2011 - 8:28am