EXCLUSIVE: Michael Lohan Writes Open Letter To Billy Ray Cyrus: 'When I Look At What You're Going Through, I Am Forced To See Myself'


Posted on Feb 18, 2011 @ 02:26PM  
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Billy Ray Cyrus raised eyebrows earlier this week when he told GQ that his daughter Miley's star-making gig on Hannah Montana -- and Satan -- have destroyed his family, and that he's desperate to get his famous offspring "sheltered from the storm."

Michael Lohan understands: The man knows what it's like to see your little girl try her hand at show business and explode into a bigger star anyone could've imagined, only to see the rug pulled out in the wake of tabloid scandals.

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That's why the father of embattled Hollywood starlet Lindsay Lohan has penned this heartfelt letter to his fellow famous dad, offering up wisdom, advice and sympathy for the Achy Breaky Heart singer in this RadarOnline.com exclusive.

Billy Ray,

Oh My God! Am I seeing and reliving almost the same exact situations, scrutiny, pain and willingness to sacrifice yourself, for the sake of your family?

As hard and frustrating as it is, believe me when I say, it's a road worth traveled. Even if it may have its’ bumps and grinds along the way.

As I was raised, there is nothing like the love a man has for his family nor is there any length he will go to save or protect them.

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The hardest part is, experiencing the pain that comes from the resistance of the very one(s) you are trying to save.

The one(s) you love so much, and are willing to die for, are too blinded by the "bright light" and people who use our loved one(s) while everyone thinks you are supposed to sit back and pretend it goes unseen.

As I don't see you as any one of the three monkeys with their hands over their ears, eyes and mouth. I, nor you, are the type of men who will sit back and do or say nothing at the risk of being persecuted.

When I look at what you are going through, I am forced to see myself. Two men who know what divorce and alienation, have done to our families.

Why I ask, if it so hard for our wives, children and even the public, to see that all we are trying to do, is to be there for our family and try to make things right?

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Isn't it clear that the answer is so easy but the people who don't matter, make it so hard? While all we want is our family and normal lives back, others forsake that for so much more.

Why is it that people don't put themselves in or shoes? And say to themselves, “How would I feel if that was happening to me?”

The sad part is, they don't and they probably never will. But that doesn't mean that men like you and I should ever give up.

While we can't change the world, our example just might touch a few, and maybe even the one(s) we seek to save.

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To that end, I want to say, that I know what you are going through, I feel your pain and frustration, and I also admire your strength, dedication and love, for your family in the name of God.

Best and God Bless,

Michael Lohan

 

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Please just hang yourself already. The only reason you are in the news is for being a bad father. GET IT!!!! And if it wasn't for your bad job as a father your daughter woudn't be in the news either. GET IT!!!

by dann
Posted Sat, 02/19/2011 - 10:11am

He needs to proof read his letters before he makes them public. And 'bumps and grinds'? He sounds so foolish.

by tamiV
Posted Sat, 02/19/2011 - 12:24am

give these people a break... noone was beating up Drew Barrymore when she was going thru adolescence in the spotlight... and she turned out just fine.

by samski
Posted Fri, 02/18/2011 - 11:41pm

actually his name WAS in the press this week...for 'positive' things...like doing volunteer charity work, and trying to get Lindsay to come out from her shell to host the top-10 on Letterman...

by samski
Posted Fri, 02/18/2011 - 11:40pm

Lohans name wasn't in the news this week so he put it there again. Must be time for a house payment.

by Toobusy
Posted Fri, 02/18/2011 - 10:41pm

Why do the Lohan's make everything about themselves? Michael, you stink as a father, you sell your family's stories to the tabloids for money. Own a part of why your daughter is so screwed up and feels so entitled and self centered, UPBRINGING!

by Bonne journee
Posted Fri, 02/18/2011 - 5:24pm

Wrong Michael. Those people that "don't matter" are the same people that made your child a star, and now they don't see her as such.
Billy Ray has one up on you Michael. At least his daughter hasn't been thrown in the pokey or drug rehab. Yet.

by mannequin
Posted Fri, 02/18/2011 - 3:46pm

Another Michael Lohan sob story brought to you and paid for by his sponsors...RoL. Boo Hooie, Michael, how much money did your little letterr of "pain" net you today? $10 thousand? I can hear you sobbing all the way to the BANK.

by amagod121
Posted Fri, 02/18/2011 - 3:42pm

Run, Billy Ray, RUN! Don't let yourself be sukked into the Micahel Lohan craaaazy machine. I just love how Michael makes it sound like it's all the fault of his divorce...and oh, how did RoL get this personal letter, BTW? Sell it to them, Michael?

by amagod121
Posted Fri, 02/18/2011 - 3:39pm

I've got to say it; one of Miley's friends said it yesterday in another publication; Billy Ray deserves this and set himself up for it; Miley's friend asked about Billy Ray, "who do you think you are, Michael Lohan?" Billy's got to STFU.

by Chris234321
Posted Fri, 02/18/2011 - 3:26pm

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