EXCLUSIVE: 'Bachelor' Jake Pavelka: "I'm Not Gay!"
Posted on Jun 25, 2010 @ 12:20PM

Although Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi didn’t have sex for most of their relationship, Jake wants everyone to know that he is not gay.
In fact, a friend of The Bachelor star since childhood exclusively tells RadarOnline.com “he's most certainly not gay.”
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Since word of the Bachelor break-up made headlines, the couple’s deepest darkest secrets have been played out in public.
“Vienna told me, ‘I don’t think Jake is into girls,’” a friend of Vienna’s told RadarOnline.com.
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And Vienna told Star magazine that Jake made excuse after excuse to avoid intimacy with her. Jake’s friend tells RadarOnline.com that lack of intimacy with Vienna is not because of Jake’s sexual orientation.
“Look at him. He’s the all-American perfect catch of a guy,” Jake’s friend says. “There’s a reason why ABC cast him as the most eligible bachelor in America.
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“If he wanted to go out and just get laid by beautiful women, he could, no doubt. But sex to him means and has always meant something. He was that guy in high school that waited for the relationship to deepen before he slept with a girl.”
The Texas pilot stopped having sex with Vienna because she made him so insecure that he lost interest, our source says.
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“He actually confided in me about a month ago when he was thinking about ending things with Vienna, saying he just couldn’t be intimate with her anymore because he lost that fire for her,” the source told RadarOnline.com.
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“She would break him down, undermine him, make fun of him, and it really took a toll on him. Don't get me wrong, Jake’s a confident guy, but every guy knows that when a women disrespects you to that level, it's hard to make love to her and mean it,” the source says.















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Posted Tue, 07/06/2010 - 3:29pm
Yes Jake, you are!!
Posted Wed, 06/30/2010 - 10:03am
You are all ass*es. Just cause I guy doesn't jump in bed with everyone it makes him gay. You would not know a real man if one bit you in the a**.....GROW THE F*CK UP IDIOTS
Posted Sat, 06/26/2010 - 11:25pm
Personally, I think he will do almost anything for fame, including deceiving others. I think she was simply a stepping stone towards that aim. He comes off as totally disingenuous
Posted Sat, 06/26/2010 - 2:30am
What straight guy comes right out and says " IM NOT GAY" hell Ricky Martin said that for years and years.. Its only a matter of time.
Posted Fri, 06/25/2010 - 11:04pm
If Jake is gay...Vienna ought to be jumping for joy that he didn't sleep with her.
Posted Fri, 06/25/2010 - 5:30pm
I won't claim he is gay - the only "proof" we have is how he looks and what Vienna has said. I thought she was a liar before the break-up...so why would I suddenly believe everything she says now?!
Posted Fri, 06/25/2010 - 5:20pm
he is gay, that is why he is de****ng himself. he is such a fake....we all know that. he has used every show, and vienna, as a cover...nothing wrong with it, guess he is embarrassed about it. too bad fake jake..you are gay.
Posted Fri, 06/25/2010 - 4:52pm
Nothing at all wrong with being Gay unless you misrepresent yourself as straight. That's irresponsible and fraudulent. Who'd want a relationship with someone like that? Make your choice and don't hide it.
Posted Fri, 06/25/2010 - 4:33pm
If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's PROBABLY a DUCK. Thou protest too much, Jake. If he couldn't have sex unless it meant something fine but he was with Vienna for months and never cared to advance the relationship? ODD
Posted Fri, 06/25/2010 - 4:29pm