EXCLUSIVE: Secret Reason Why Sandra Bullock Hasn't Filed For Divorce Yet
Posted on Apr 06, 2010 @ 01:55PM
Sandra Bullock has decided her marriage is over after discovering husband Jesse James cheated on her repeatedly, but she has yet to file divorce papers because she’s worried her angry husband will spill her secrets, RadarOnline.com is reporting exclusively.
It’s been three weeks since the Oscar-winning actress’ marriage blew up and she’s avoided the public and made no comment, even as her troubled husband has released statements saying he wants to save the marriage.
PHOTO: Jesse James Gives Nazi Salute
“The main reason Sandra has not filed divorce papers yet is because she doesn’t want to trigger Jesse into attacking her publicly and revealing her secrets,” a source close to the situation told RadarOnline.com.
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“Sandra is one of the most private actresses in Hollywood,” the source said. “And the last thing she wants is Jesse out there talking about her and talking about her marriage.
“She’s been worried that if she drops divorce papers on him now he’ll want revenge and will try to harm her reputation.
"His behavior is so erratic that she doesn't want to send him over the edge."
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Jesse's erratic behavior has been obvious. As RadarOnline.com was first to report, Jesse checked himself into sex rehab at Sierra Tucson in Arizona hoping to prove to Sandra that he was fighting for the marriage and willing to whatever was necessary to save it. Less than a week later, Jesse left rehab after Sandra wouldn’t take his phone call. After his short stint AWOL, Jesse is now back in rehab again.
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Sandra Bullock released a statement Tuesday saying that no sex tape exists with her and Jesse James. Her statement is in response to an internet report yesterday that said one existed and then described it in graphic detail. RadarOnline.com has not seen any evidence of that tape.
But RadarOnline.com has learned that James made many sex tapes with OTHER women as he cheated throughout his marriage to Bullock.
Jesse’s fascination with Nazi memorabilia and his lifestyle in general has always seemed at odds with Sandra’s image as Miss Congeniality. The situation has left many people wondering what Sandra and Jesse have in common and Sandra has preferred to keep the details of their marriage private.
A nasty public divorce is the last thing Sandra wants and that is why she hasn’t dropped divorce papers on Jesse so far.
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"Sandra is a very private person and always has been,” the source said. “She keeps a close group of friends that keep her secrets. She doesn't want an angry ex-husband revealing things she wants to keep private.
"During the past several weeks she’s had several phone calls with Jesse and he’s pleaded with her to stay married. But he’s also grown angry when she wouldn’t agree. And that’s what has her worried and has frozen her into inaction.
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“She believes that Jesse would be so angry by divorce papers that he would destroy the privacy she’s fought so hard to maintain.”
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Apr 12, 2010 @ 13:30
She's a closet lesbian...figure it out.
Posted Wed, 04/07/2010 - 12:40pm
I bet she loved the Nazi stuff as much as he does!
Posted Tue, 04/06/2010 - 11:00pm
Just wondering what awful "secrets" she doesn't want him spilling???
Isn't making 12 nazi sex tapes enough for her to kick him out? Something is very fishy about Sandra's behavior.
Posted Tue, 04/06/2010 - 10:53pm
Jesse's name corresponds to an '8' which is the Big Kahuna in numbers. Prosperity and success. The Jackpot. When 8 goes bad, bullying, greedy, selfish. ****.oraclesandarchetypes.com
Posted Tue, 04/06/2010 - 10:33pm
Shame on you ROL, I'm sure most people that loved someone would take more than 5 mins to file for divorce. JC et al, you're a bunch of loser trolls.
Posted Tue, 04/06/2010 - 10:09pm
I think it's pretty obvious that she was d*ckmatized with J.J.
Posted Tue, 04/06/2010 - 9:00pm
My theory is she just plain loves him and is trying to decide whether or not she can live without him. I think that's likely. It was very obvious both of them love each other. He's just off track but this can be fixed in time. No cut and run stuff.
Posted Tue, 04/06/2010 - 8:38pm
Hmm, how to fix a husband's long-term appetite for strippers, tattooed/biker chicks and porn stars? Ah yes, "fixed", just like a dog - castration. Works just like a charm.
Posted Wed, 04/07/2010 - 6:35am
Nobody knows what either Sandra or Elin are going to do. All this sources told us...blah blah blah is utterly ridiculous. There aren't 300 million people in these marriages. It's between the 4 of them, period and we don't need to know.
Posted Tue, 04/06/2010 - 8:32pm
Oh ya, ROL knows just what Sandra Bullock is thinking and planning to do. OMG that is so friggin' ridiculous it's sad.
Posted Tue, 04/06/2010 - 8:29pm