EXCLUSIVE: Sandra Bullock Delays Divorce Filing To Work Out Deal With James


Posted on Apr 16, 2010 @ 01:28PM  
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Sandra Bullock has delayed filing for divorce until now because she wants to work out an amicable deal with husband Jesse James before filing papers, RadarOnline.com is reporting exclusively.

James has been linked to five women in extra-marital affairs and the publicity from those indiscretions has been difficult for Bullock, a source told RadarOnline.com. While Sandra had her suspicions about Jesse during the marriage, she never imagined the extent of his cheating, the source said.

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Since the scandal broke Bullock has kept a low profile, canceled public appearances and met only with close friends and family. The big question is why has she not already filed for divorce?

The answer, according to the source, is she wants to work out and finish a deal with James before the papers are even filed. “She will definitely be filing divorce papers, but wants to make sure everything is lined up perfectly first so it doesn’t get messy,” the source told RadarOnline.com.

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“She wants to tie up lose ends with Jesse so the divorce is as quick and painless as possible. She wants to make sure when they divorce he won’t discuss their relationship publicly.”

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It’s a tough spot for the Oscar-winning actress because Jesse wants to save the marriage and went into sex rehab treatment at Sierra Tucson to prove he wants to change. But the source says Bullock wants out of the marriage – but wants an extremely clean break.

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That makes discussing terms of a divorce difficult if not impossible because Jesse isn’t ready to accept the marriage is over. He has said he wants his old life back, to live in the same house, with the same people. And RadarOnline.com has learned that he has been prone to fits of extreme anger when things have not gone his way lately.

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Sandra is hoping that as time passes he will accept the marriage is over and be reasonable about a divorce. The Blind Side actress has always been discreet about her personal life and that has not changed.

RadarOnline.com has been told that there are as many as 15 Jesse James mistresses in total and that some of the mistresses have been bought up to stay quiet, although it’s unclear who is silencing them. “Jesse made his bed and he has to lie in it,” the insider said. “But that doesn’t mean that Sandra has to.”

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Whatever respect I had for this woman is gone. Now the question is WHY is she trying to bribe him for a peaceful divorce? What does she have to hide? Go JJ, the momentum is on your side now and please raise the price.

by jaynjayc
Posted Sat, 04/17/2010 - 12:00pm

how can someone be married to someone and don't know that the person is a nazi. most people let something out of their mouth at some point expressing their views on things. is she that stupid

by pm
Posted Fri, 04/16/2010 - 10:43pm

I don't think this will end cleanly, quietly, or well. I believe he has anger issues, and anyone who's ever tried to get away from somebody w/anger issues who doesn't want to let you go knows it's dangerous business.

by bellaluna
Posted Fri, 04/16/2010 - 9:49pm

Your right bellaluna, he does have anger and control issues. sandra married into a mess of a life.
she's got to leave his children alone and give him the house in order to have a CLEAN divorce, and she should STOP all communications with him.

by vale
Posted Fri, 04/16/2010 - 10:38pm

in order to divorce jj quickly, painlessly and clean break is to leave his children alone with him and their bio moms, and let him keep the house---the only way -----and he keeps his trap (mouth) shut.

by vale
Posted Fri, 04/16/2010 - 8:47pm

the more she pleads to him about this and that the more leverage/power she gives him. she married into a real MESS of a man.

by vale
Posted Fri, 04/16/2010 - 8:44pm

Whatever the truth, I just hope the kids won't be further traumatized. I'm sure Sunny was very attached to Sandra.

by JC
Posted Fri, 04/16/2010 - 7:46pm

If James won't accept his losses, he'll try to kill her. So, hard assed security to protect her, and remove him from her life. If the anal stories are true, she's toast.

by killerwhale52
Posted Fri, 04/16/2010 - 7:34pm

Sandra is a 40 year old women, has not led a sheltered life, she may not have known everything, but I would truly be surpirised if she was completely in the dark about all this. She is no stupid woman, must have had a clue

by mencha
Posted Fri, 04/16/2010 - 5:51pm

mencha.. F.Y.I. ...Sandra will be 46 in June.

by TGIF10
Posted Fri, 04/16/2010 - 10:36pm