Tammi Baliszewski, who was involved in a relationship with Kelsey Grammer before he dumped her for his now ex-wife, Camille, tells RadarOnline.com exclusively that people are only now just seeing the Emmy Award winning actor for who he really is.

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"The public is starting to understand this individual," said Baliszewski, who was engaged Grammer in 1994 but never made it to the altar.

Kelsey Grammer’s ex fiancé tells RadarOnline.com that she’s helping his wife Camille deal with the pain of their marriage disaster.

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Former model Tammi Baliszewski was engaged to the Frasier star before she claims he two-timed her with Camille, but despite being the jilted lover, she tells RadarOnline.com in an exclusive interview that she feels sorry for Camille and has been in contact with her.

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"I have immense compassion for what Camille is going through," Tammy told us. "I've been there."

Tammi, who previously used the last name Alexander, says that Camille called her approximately five months ago and they had a candid conversation about Kelsey.  (Camille’s rep told RadarOnline.com that he did not know if that call took place.)