In recent weeks, celebs such as Madonna and Tracy Morgan have raised eyebrows for reportedly turning their backs on family members, and according to Star magazine, Vanessa Minnillo, who now who now goes by her married name of Lachey, is a member of the club as well.

Vanessa Minnillo is living the high life having recently married her pop star husband, Nick Lachey, but Star magazine has learned that her estranged mother, who was not invited to her daughter’s wedding, lives in a lowly trailer park and has not seen her daughter since she was 9-years-old.

In fact, Helen Bondoc had no idea that her gorgeous 30-year-old daughter was even getting married. And when Star spoke with her exclusively at her South Carolina mobile home 12 days after Vanessa and Nick’s July 15 wedding in the British Virgin Islands, Helen struggled with her emotions.