Real Housewives of New Jersey's Jacqueline Laurita is fuming over her daughter Ashley Holmes' budding romance with celebrity publicist and The Spin Crowd star Jonathan Cheban, RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively.

Laurita was an expected guest at Wednesday night's The Spin Crowd finale party in New York City but was a no-show after news of Cheban's relationship with Ashley went public.

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"Jacqueline doesn't approve and was a little concerned about her daughter spending time with Jonathan," a source close to the reality television couple told RadarOnline.com.

"Jacqueline wanted to go to the Spin Crowd's party and didn't want Ashley to attend."

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RadarOnline.com exclusively reported that the pair were seen locking lips at the star-studded opening of La Scala Boutique in Harlem just two days earlier.

"They were in the corner making out," the source said of the unlikely couple. "They were all over each other."

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Although she was on the guest list, Jacqueline never showed up at the Spin Crowd finale party.

"It caused some tension, but Ashley really wanted to see him and went to the party anyway. She actually avoided the red carpet walk to be less conspicuous and went in a back door.

"When Jonathan was asked about their relationship, he mimicked a zipper across his mouth and smiled."

Catch the finale of The Spin Crowd on Sunday at 10:30 pm ET on E!.

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Celebrity publicist Jonathan Cheban hit the town Monday night with his Executive Producer and pal Kim Kardashian but not before he was spotted getting cozy with teenager Ashley Holmes of The Real Housewives of New Jersey.

RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned Cheban and the 19-year-old daughter of The Real Housewives of New Jersey star Jacqueline Laurita were seen locking lips at the star-studded opening of La Scala Boutique in Harlem.

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“They were in the corner making out,” said our source of the unlikely couple. “They were all over each other.”

Cheban began his night out with Holmes at La Scala and the couple were photographed in a stretch limo and walking the streets of Manhattan together. The Spin Crowd star then headed to Nobu to meet up Kim Kardashian.

“He left La Scala separately from Holmes to avoid the press,” said our source. “And then the pair met back up again at Nobu Restaurant with Kim Kardashian.”

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It was less than a month ago that RadarOnline.com exclusively reported that Holmes split from her boyfriend Derek Vance and then made the announcement on Twitter that they were “on a break.”

And what would her mother Jacqueline think of her new man?

Well, her recent Tweet to Cheban says it all...

Jonathan Cheban @JacLaurita hello?? y r u not responding to me?

When contacted by RadarOnline.com, a rep for Cheban responded with “no comment.”

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The Real Housewives of New Jersey star Ashley Holmes has split from her boyfriend, Derek Vance, RadarOnline.com has learned.

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The 19-year-old daughter of Housewife Jacqueline Laurita Tweeted the news to a friend, admitting they were on "a break."

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"Ummm...we're just taking some time apart right now." she wrote on the social networking site, when asked if her romance had come to an end.

"But who knows what the future holds..he's an amazing guy..and I love him."

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Holmes broke the news Sunday and an angry Vance reciprocated two hours after her post.

"Stop saying stuff like this on twitter. Come on," wrote Vance, before deleting his Twitter page.

Holmes made a name for herself on the show by assaulting co-star Danielle Staub, 45.

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The Real Housewives of New Jersey's outrageous antics have led to them being banned from the country club where they brawled during a recent episode, RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively. John Stanley, the General Manager of the North Jersey Country Club, sent an apology to members of the club on July 19, and RadarOnline.com has a copy of the letter which states that the ladies are not welcome back at the establishment and calls their behavior staged.

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He also goes on to rip the women of the show, pointing out they do not represent the "great families" that are part of the club's membership.

"It is safe to say that the 'Real Housewives of New Jersey' cast and crew members are not welcome at the North Jersey Country Club and I assure you that nothing like this will ever occur again at this Club," Stanley wrote to club members in a letter dated July 19, 2010.

The fight at the club included hair pulling and the cops being called. It aired on July 12.

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"We are all embarrassed with the staged behavior of these cast members at our Club," Stanley wrote.

The letter says the Club was misled about the nature of the event.

"The fashion show event scheduled in November 2009 that was shown on the television episodes this July, were not properly presented to the North Jersey Country Club when the event was originally contracted and scheduled.

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"The originally proposed function was quite common for a Club event: a fashion show from a local community business. Like all outside events, the fashion show was sponsored by a Club member and in addition, had the support of thirty club members in the form of attendance or volunteer models. The attending members, the sponsor, and volunteer models, like the Club's management, were all misled."

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"As the date of the event approached, we learned that cast members from a cable TV show would be in attendance which also increased the overall attendance of the event to over 200 people.

"Two days before the event we were asked if Bravo could film the fashion show.  At that time, a lapse in judgment was made. Being somewhat naïve, and not aware of the true nature of the TV show, permission was granted."

Unfortunately, it doesn't look like the Club has any legal recourse against the show or the network.

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"After the event, I also learned that a release was signed by a representative of the Club, which took away our ability to have any legal recourse. We clearly made a mistake in not fully understanding the potential risk of this event. We clearly made a mistake in signing the release."

Stanley then slammed the women of the show.

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"Whether you are a fan of the show, or a first time viewer, it is quite apparent from watching that the cast member are not affiliated with this Club or more importantly represent the many great families that comprise the North Jersey membership that call this Club their second home. Further, these women do not represent the people and families of our many neighboring towns or the population of the great state of New Jersey.

"As your General Manager and Senior Operation Officer, I apologize to the membership that this happened and assure you that preventative measures have been taken so this will be the first and last time that something of this nature ever happens at North Jersey Country Club."

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The 19-year-old daughter of housewife Jacqueline Laurita was found guilty of one count of assault after ripping out the hair extensions of Danielle Staub. She was ordered to pay a $189 fine to the court.

The Real Housewives of New Jersey airs on Bravo Mondays at 10pm.